Well, first of all, he has to have good teeth just kidding also . I`m talking straight and white. I can`t think about being close to someone without a nice smile. He has to be able to spell. Even on here, that shows some sort of intelligence. He must be intelligent. He must be wealthy enough to be able to take care of a family, as well or better than I take care of mine. I want my man to have the same ambition as I do. I am a goal setter and achiever. I know what I am capable of, and I set realistic goals and don`t let anything get in my way of reaching them. I have dreams too, and my other half must be able to support me, just as I will support him. He must realize that a relationship is a two way street and if you scratch my b scratch yours. I am not a typical female .I am not looking for anything that comes along and pays attention to me. I want a man that is going to give me everything I give him. Everything from time and respect to the sexual side of things. I am very giving by nature .and my ideal man will be too. He has to have his own opinion and not be afraid to go head to head with me on certain subjects. I don`t want a push over. I want someone to prove to me everyday that I am not always right and to put me in my place